This is a side of the reproductive debate that is often ignored, but there's a very good reason it's ignored. It can be justified in one simple sentence:
Guys, if you don't want to be a dad or pay child support, keep it in your pants, or at least, wrap it up.
Oh, the outrage I can already see being ejaculated all over my face by conservatives and "men's rights activists" for daring to even make the suggestion that MEN be responsible for their own sperm. Yet, I'd be willing to bet that every last one of them believes that if a woman really doesn't want to get pregnant, she should, "Keep her legs together."
Somehow, it's okay to tell women how to operate their vaginas, but woe be upon she who dares tell a man how to operate his penis. Actually, try thinking for a moment and you'll come to the logical conclusion that the following is common sense for both genders. Don't want to be a parent or face an abortion? Don't fuck. Wanna fuck but don't want to be a parent? Protect yourself. I don't care if the other person said they "had it covered." Don't be an idiot. I don't care if it sounds "untrusting," never put your reproductive rights in someone else's hands. Guys, don't tell me, "She said she was on the pill." Ladies, don't tell me, "He wouldn't wear a condom."
If you, male or female, are going to throw all the wonderful scientific advances in birth control, be fully ready, willing, and able to accept the consequences, be they pregnancy, be they child support, be they abortion. Guys, any time you play victim about getting a woman pregnant "by accident," because, "she was supposed to be on the pill," you're full of shit. You're not a victim. It is your fault. It is 100% your fault. You could have chosen to wear a condom. Don't tell me, "But it doesn't feel as good." It feels a fucklot better than having your wages garnished to support a kid you didn't want for a minimum of 18 years.
Ladies, same thing. You're not a victim. I understand not every woman wants to take birth control pills; they're one more chemical that can have horrible side effects. Still, you could have chosen to tell the guy, "Wrap up or get out." Sure, I've heard guys whine about condoms, but if it comes between getting laid or not getting laid, trust me, they won't argue. Again, don't tell me it doesn't feel as good. It feels a fucklot better than either aborting a baby or pushing/cutting it out of your body and then having to feed the damn thing for a minimum of 18 years.
Except in cases of rape, male or female, there are no parental victims of accidental pregnancy. You both ignored simple logic, you can both pay emotionally and financially for the damage. That's the price of being a dipshit.